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Sheri Garzelli's avatar

Awesome piece of writing, Jo! I really love the attention on the complex nuances … the highlight of safety as a pervasive (and INvasive!) issue and the complexities of managing/trying to protect ourselves and each other. Thank you!

Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD's avatar

Thanks Sheri. That means a lot ❤️

Naomi Fanaberia's avatar

Jo-Ann's writing style, choice of topic, clear rendering, showing both sides of fear, safety, etc., when to speak, and when to remain silent but vigilant, is truly remarkable! This article a must read. We walk a fine line! Every adult and child, old enough to understand this, is lucky to have these articles at their finger tips. Keep on producing these! Bravo!

Marsha McGregor's avatar

Valuable thoughts, as always. Thank you, Jo-Ann.

Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD's avatar

Thank you Marsha ❤️

Joy V. 🌵's avatar

Our Y recently added female-only hours, and while I felt a little weird about it at first (I've always felt really safe at our Y), I have to admit it felt freeing to contemplate a weight room without any men, kinda like the TikTok poll.

Jo-Ann Finkelstein, PhD's avatar

Totally. Sometimes being in women-only spaces is a balm against the limitations of constantly feeling Other (or a reminder that we feel Other a lot without even realizing it).